On this Addictionary podcast episode, I’m dishing out all the details on how to I landed in the land of sobriety!
The way recovery translates into profound changes, and the wildest nature of our lives and what happens.
I promise I am the pirate of picking up what you’re putting down.
No joke, I have forged some scary storms on this awakened ship. Listen here.
I’m sure you agree that not ALL recovery stories are created equal, right?
If you’re just getting started in recovery (and even if you’ve been at it for a while), this might feel more anxiety-provoking than a backed-up airport security line or like you’ve found someone slightly more or less crazy than you!
I’ve learned a lot and sharing my hard-won knowledge with you lights me up.
Research shows that the most significant factor in a successful outcome is the connection and relationship with your recovery—what you might describe as the experience of “feeling felt.”
Harnessing our power to create that future, altogether uncertain as it is (the whole point really), drives everything that I do. From coaching to writing to energy work, exploring science, to how I love others and how I talk to myself. All of it.
And while I’ve fancied myself a one-woman show, I’ve never done any of it alone.
We can’t do anything significant alone. It takes a village. It takes a movement.
Asking for support can be complex, especially those of us self-sufficient types who can do it all on our own but are slowly starting to notice the barrier that sets up in creating more loving, authentic relationships. Sound familiar?
Listen to this week’s podcast and start building your dream recovery today! >>
Over 1000 sober days under my belt over the last 3 years, and losing 110lbs – you’re in very safe hands. I’m here to make sure you crush your goals.
You can do what I did. My mission is to show you how.
I love you. I believe in you. I hope to see you there!
I’m also a one-woman-show, although I do ask for help sometimes. You’re right, some things take a village, a whole community. You can’t do everything on your own.
Congratulations on over1000 sober days! And losing 110 lbs! That’s amazing! Blogs like this are an inspiration to many, and I am looking forward to reading more of your stuff 🙂
Thank you for support Christine!! We are here to hold each other up! I appreciate you being here as part of this journey!! Many blessings!
I just finished listening to the podcast. You have a fantastic story. I find it empowering when people come forward with their stories and let people know how they have overcome the damage of the past.
As a survivor of a dark past and fighting my own addictions, I can appreciate how challenging coming forward and facing your demons head-on can be.
I really related to what you said about not knowing how to parent when you first became pregnant. I had similar fears when I got married, and when I had my daughters. I had no solid role models when it came to having a healthy relationship or being a good parent. I knew what not to do, but I had no idea what to do. It took me years to find a healthy place both within my marriage and with my kids.
You are a true inspiration. Thank you for putting yourself out there. People need to know they are not alone.
Thank you for your comment Dovey. We can do this together!! I am touched by how far this podcast has reached and the stories listeners are sharing. I am inspired by you too! Our children are the greatest teachers!! Thank you again for reaching out. Much love!!
Thanks for this encouraging message! I admire you for;
a) Surviving and successfully conquering your addiction!
and
b) Explaining your story to others and letting them know its ok to ask for help, and that help is out there.
Many people, like my self, are self-sufficient, independent, stand on our own two feet types. But there are some things such as addiction, when you really need to seek out and get help.
Thanks for sharing this, and the podcast adds a nice touch. I will go back and listen to it again soon.
Congratulations on 1000 days sober and losing so much weight!
Best of health,
Devara
Thank you!! I am so grateful for this community and how we are all here to do better. It is such an honour to be on the other side of recovery and share my journey. So much goodness, all around!
Your story is very inspirational. I love that you’re taking the experiences you’ve encountered and are working toward empowering others through your story.
I’ve known many people who have struggled with addictions both in my family and work life and I’ve come to gain a true understanding that people are layered, there are underlining factors that come into play when turning to drugs and alcohol.
Working in the social service field for 15yrs has given me a better understanding of concurrent disorders and how it’s just not as simple as telling someone to stop their addiction and get over their depression. People don’t wake up one day and decide to become an addict or depressed, this is a result of the underlying factors they’ve been facing for several years.
I truly appreciate your courage and strength putting your story out there and turning your experiences into positive outcomes by empowering others who may be faced with similar circumstances and that change is possible, your life is proof.
Thanks again for your story,
Hello Tracy!! Thank you for your support and kind words! It is so important to hear that others here have similar experiences and can relate to the struggle and the crazy journey out of it. I am deeply touched by you too!! All is well!!
I love seeing other people sharing their stories through blogs and podcasts. It is so inspiring, especially for people still struggling. Although, the struggle never really ends completely because life is never perfect. It seems you have found happiness and that is something many users feel is not even a possibility. Setting the example you are setting is crucial. Thank you again for sharing. I have to ask because weight loss has been a struggle for me and many other recovering users.
Keep up the great work.
I would love for you to do a guest post, or maybe we can exchange guest posts for each other’s readers! Hope to speak to you soon.
Thank you for your message!! I am happy to connect with you and your community. We are doing important work to help others out of the crazy addiction cycle. Let’s talk?
Your story is so inspiring Kathleen! Struggling against addiction in whatever form is frustrating and it consumes you. How can one stop being addicted to a person? Any advice?
Hello Effie, Good question! And thank you for being brave and asking. There are groups for Codependency, if you are dealing with someone who is addicted also Alanon is a good choice. There are some great books available too. (Melody Beatie is big on recovery from codependence) Let me know if you have any questions. All the best!!